Whilst trying to concentrate entirely on my essay about
morals in 19th century novels my mind has been wandering to the
different problems that one comes across as an expat in Paris. Obviously most
expats like myself tend to choose to remove themselves from their native shores
in order to become more acquainted with other lands but that doesn’t mean we
don’t love Blighty and less. In fact sometimes it makes us love it more.
I was taking a photo yesterday of the Arc de Triomphe in the
classic tourist pose – standing in the middle of a crossing zooming in and marvelling
at the architecture. I spied a few locals giving me quite bizarre looks and
this set me off thinking. Obviously I don’t look like a tourist. You’ll see no
bumbag or overcrammed rucksack on my person but all of my behaviours dictated
that I wasn’t a true Parisian.
I marvel at the
beauty of the buildings. Looking up in awe at the magnificence of the matching
awnings on the windows and how the sun glimmers on the gilding of Les Invalides
are things that no Parisian would be caught dead doing. My aim when I first
moved here was to become more native than the natives but the longer I live
here I realise that actually I quite like the surprises each day of a new things
to go and find and new places to explore. I like some parts of the Frenchness - high quality chocolate eclairs and baguettes
being available on every street do tend to help everyday life but there is no
point in taking the extraordinary aspects of Paris for granted like you see so
many locals doing. I think what I’m trying to say is – don’t just exist
somewhere, experience it.